There seems to be some uncertainty about anal sex toys.
Most people either like them or hate them, rarely does there seem
to be a middle of the road opinion about their use. Based on the comments
that we get from our customers many men and women find the feeling
to be very pleasurable. However, it does feel different for men than
for women, and that’s probably because men have a prostate gland.
Either way many people use anal toys to enhance their sexual experiences.
In this section you will find a variety of products designed to meet
almost any desire, and if you’re just looking - try to keep
an open mind. Who knows you may just like it!
Anal
Sex Tips:
The most basic of all tips is: Always incorporate
a bit of simple common sense into your anal sex play. No list of tips
can ever replace plain old fashioned common sense, so having stated
that we hope the rest of this information may be useful.
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Always
use lubricants whenever engaging in anal sex play. The anus and
rectum are not lubricated naturally like the vagina, so an artificial
lubrication is always both needed and recommended. Many people like
silicone based lubes because they are both slippery and condom compatible,
but a good water based lubricant is just as effective. When in doubt
use more rather than less.
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Never
put anything into your butt or someone else’s butt that doesn't
have a flared base on it or it has an easy means of retrieval. Once
an object slips into the rectum and out of grasp there is nothing
to stop it from moving farther up into the body. If you want to
avoid a very embarrassing trip to you local emergency room we suggest
you follow this rule very carefully.
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Be
gentle and go slow, especially if you are just starting out your
anal explorations. Nothing will turn off someone new to anal play
like pain. Frankly, it is the number one complaint registered by
women about their partners. So please, take it slow and take your
time. Allow the anus to adjust and get used to what ever you place
in it. It is amazing how the anus will adjust if you just give it
a little time.
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Make
sure anything you use has no sharp edges or ridges. The rectum is
lined with thin sensitive tissue. Check all plastic toys for rough
or sharp edges, if you find some you can probably file them down
with a nail file and make them smooth. Remember, to thoroughly clean
the toy if you do file or sand a rough or sharp spot from its surface.
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You
can use a condom on most anal toys to keep them clean. If your partner
is in doubt put a condom on your sex toy. If they are more comfortable
then the experience will be more enjoyable for both partners.
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Don't
put anal toys in the vagina. There are bacteria's in the rectum
that can cause infections in the vagina. So don't use an anal toy
back and forth between the butt and vagina. Keep them separate or
put a condom on it.
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Clean
your anal toys completely after each use. A good anti-bacterial
soap and warm water is a good start, some people feel better with
an alcohol wipe, or a sex toy cleaner can also be used.
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Also
once you’ve cleaned your toys we suggest you store them in
a nice toy box or bag until they are needed again.